A Literary Prescription for

Home

For missing a place that no longer exists, or never quite finding one, and the slow work of building somewhere — or someone — you can call home.

Home is rarely just an address. It might be a house that was sold, a country you left, a childhood you cannot return to, or a feeling you have been chasing your whole life without ever quite landing it. Sometimes home is a person. Sometimes it is the slower work of becoming someone you can finally live inside of. The books, poems, and words gathered here are for anyone who has ever felt the particular ache of not knowing exactly where home is — or whether they have found it yet.

“The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned.”
Maya Angelou

Books

Books to read about home

Books for the many different shapes home can take — and lose.

01

Home

Toni Morrison · 2012

A Korean War veteran makes his way back to the Georgia town he swore he would never return to, only to find that saving his sister requires him to finally reckon with the place, rather than keep running from it. Morrison writes home as neither refuge nor trap but something more complicated — unfinished business you eventually have to face.

02

Homegoing

Yaa Gyasi · 2016

Gyasi follows two half-sisters and their descendants across three centuries and two continents, one line staying in Ghana, the other scattered by slavery through America. The novel is, at its core, about what gets carried forward when a family is severed from its original home — and what, against all odds, still manages to find its way back.

03

Exit West

Mohsin Hamid · 2017

As their city collapses into conflict, two young lovers step through a mysterious door and find themselves elsewhere — and elsewhere again, and again, in Hamid’s spare, unsettling account of what displacement actually costs. It captures something true about leaving home under duress: the door is rarely the hard part. Rebuilding a sense of belonging on the other side is.

04

The Home Place

J. Drew Lanham · 2016

Lanham, an ornithologist, writes about growing up Black on his family’s land in rural South Carolina, and the particular, complicated love of a home place that was never simple or safe. It is a memoir about how home can be both the land that raised you and the history you are still working out your relationship to.

05

The Memory Library

Kate Storey · 2024

Ella is pulled back to her childhood home in London when her estranged mother has a fall, and finds a lifetime of birthday books, each inscribed with words her mother could never quite say aloud. Storey writes going home not as surrender but as the slow, overdue work of finally hearing someone — and being heard back.

06

There There

Tommy Orange · 2018

Orange follows twelve Native American characters converging on a powwow in Oakland, all of them negotiating what home means for people whose ancestral homeland was taken and who have built new, urban belonging out of necessity. It is a vital corrective to any narrow idea of home as one fixed, ancestral place.

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Poems about home

For when prose is not enough

Poems for wherever home is, or was, or might yet be.

“The Death of the Hired Man” (extract)

Robert Frost, 1914

“Home is the place where, when you have to go there,
They have to take you in.”
 
“I should have called it
Something you somehow haven’t to deserve.”
 
Part of a moon was falling down the west,
Dragging the whole sky with it to the hills.

Frost stages the whole argument about home inside a single exchange between a farmer and his wife — one defining it as an obligation you are owed, the other as something closer to grace, given without conditions. The poem never fully resolves which is true. Most people who have ever needed home badly will recognise both.

“Home” (extract)

Warsan Shire, from Bless the Daughter Raised by a Voice in Her Head, 2022

no one leaves home unless
home is the mouth of a shark

Shire wrote this for refugees, and its opening lines have travelled further than almost any other contemporary poem for exactly that reason — they insist, correctly, that no one abandons home lightly, whatever the circumstances that made leaving necessary.facinghistory.org/resource-library/home-warsan-shire" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Facing History & Ourselves. Find it in Bless the Daughter Raised by a Voice in Her Head.

“Requiem” (extract)

Robert Louis Stevenson, 1887

Under the wide and starry sky,
Dig the grave and let me lie.
Glad did I live and gladly die,
And I laid me down with a will.
 
This be the verse you grave for me:
“Here he lies where he longed to be;
Home is the sailor, home from sea,
And the hunter home from the hill.”

Stevenson wrote his own epitaph, and its central image — home not as a place you stay, but as the place you are finally allowed to stop moving — has comforted readers with no relation to sailing or hunting for well over a century. Sometimes home is simply wherever the searching ends.

Quotes & Prose

Quotes about home to keep

Lines for wherever, or whoever, home turns out to be.

Home wasn’t a set house, or a single town on a map. It was wherever the people who loved you were, whenever you were together.

Sarah Dessen, What Happened to Goodbye

Perhaps home is not a place but simply an irrevocable condition.

James Baldwin, Giovanni’s Room

Home is not just the place where you happen to be born. It is the place where you become yourself.

Pico Iyer

Home is where one starts from.

T.S. Eliot, East Coker

Where we love is home, home that our feet may leave, but not our hearts.

Oliver Wendell Holmes, The Poet at the Breakfast Table

From Georgia

Pause here, if you need to

A short practice for sitting with home, whenever you need somewhere to land.

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Questions people ask

Reading for Home

Where should I start with home?

If you only read one thing, begin with Home by Toni Morrison. A Korean War veteran makes his way back to the Georgia town he swore he would never return to, only to find that saving his sister requires him to finally reckon with the place… And if a whole book feels like too much today, scroll to the poems below — “Home” by Warsan Shire can be read in a minute and asks nothing of you.

What can I read about home in five minutes?

There is “Home” by Warsan Shire further down, which takes very little time and asks very little of you. The lines to keep, lower down, ask even less than that. Nothing here has to be read in order, and nothing has to be finished.

Which quotes about home are worth keeping?

Quotes about home worth keeping include “Home wasn’t a set house, or a single town on a map. It was wherever the people who loved you…” (Sarah Dessen), “Perhaps home is not a place but simply an irrevocable condition.” (James Baldwin) and “Home is not just the place where you happen to be born. It is the place where you become…” (Pico Iyer). You’ll find these and more in the quotes section above.

Should I work through this home reading list in order?

Slowly. This isn’t a reading list to finish; it’s a small shelf to return to. Keep one quote where you’ll see it, let a poem sit with you for a day, and pick up a book when it calls. Home isn’t somewhere you arrive at by reading faster.

Curated by Georgia Clare, bibliotherapist and author of Quote Therapy — now in paperback & Kindle.
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