A Literary Prescription for

Joy

For welcoming it in when it arrives, and learning to notice it when it is already here.

Joy is not the same as happiness, and it is not the absence of difficulty. It is something that can coexist with grief, with uncertainty, with mess — a sudden bright animal that arrives uninvited and does not stay long enough. The trick, as Ross Gay and others have discovered, is not to chase it but to pay attention carefully enough to catch it when it passes through. The books, poems, and words gathered here are about that quality of attention.

Books Poetry Quotes & Prose
“Find ecstasy in life; the mere sense of living is joy enough.”
Emily Dickinson

Books

Prescribed reading

Books that take joy seriously as a subject.

01

Joyful

Ingrid Fetell Lee · 2018

Lee, a designer, spent years investigating what physical environments and sensory experiences reliably produce joy — and the answers are surprisingly specific and actionable. Colour, roundness, abundance, wildness, freedom. For readers who want to understand joy as a material, designable quality rather than a vague aspiration, Lee is an excellent guide.

02

Exuberance

Kay Redfield Jamison · 2004

Jamison — best known for her memoir of bipolar disorder — turns here to its opposite pole and writes about exuberance with the same rigour and beauty she brings to everything. She traces it through scientists, artists, and explorers for whom joy was a force rather than a mood. It is one of the most distinctive books about happiness ever written.

03

Stumbling on Happiness

Daniel Gilbert · 2006

Gilbert’s investigation into why humans are so reliably wrong about what will make them happy is both funny and illuminating. For readers who keep postponing joy until circumstances improve, Gilbert provides compelling evidence that the future happiness they are imagining is likely a fiction — and that the present offers more than they are crediting it with.

04

The Year of Magical Thinking

Joan Didion · 2005

An unexpected entry for a Joy prescription, but Didion’s memoir of grief is also a memoir of what joy looked like when it was present — the specific textures of a life so fully lived that its loss was this devastatingly precise. For readers who have forgotten what joy felt like, Didion’s grief is an inventory of it.

Poetry

For when prose is not enough

Poems that catch joy in passing.

“Lines Written in Early Spring”

William Wordsworth, 1798

I heard a thousand blended notes,
While in a grove I sate reclined,
In that sweet mood when pleasant thoughts
Bring sad thoughts to the mind.

Wordsworth catches joy and grief arriving simultaneously — the pleasure of the birds and budding twigs sharpened by the sadness of what humans have made of the world. It is a more honest joy than the uncomplicated kind, and for that reason more enduring.

“Pied Beauty”

Gerard Manley Hopkins, 1877

Glory be to God for dappled things —
For skies of couple-colour as a brinded cow;
For rose-moles all in stipple upon trout that swim.

Hopkins’s compressed, sensory celebration of all things spotted, dappled, and irregular is one of the most joyful things in the English language — a reminder that joy tends to live in the specific, the particular, the odd and varied rather than the grand and sweeping. A reliable cure for the grey abstraction that joy sometimes hides behind.

“Ode to My Socks”

Pablo Neruda, trans. Robert Bly, 1956

Maru Mori brought me
a pair of socks
which she knitted herself
with her sheepherder’s hands,
two socks as soft as rabbits.

Neruda’s famous ode to a pair of handmade socks is a masterclass in paying the kind of attention to ordinary things that makes them extraordinary. For readers whose joy has dimmed, Neruda demonstrates the practice of noticing — that the material for joy is almost always already present, if you look at it long enough.

Quotes & Prose

Lines to keep

Lines for welcoming joy when it arrives, and recognising it when it has been there all along.

Joy is not made to be a crumb.

Mary Oliver

The present moment always will have been.

Simone Weil

Pleasure is always derived from something outside you, whereas joy arises from within.

Eckhart Tolle

This is the real secret of life — to be completely engaged with what you are doing in the here and now.

Alan Watts

For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.

Ralph Waldo Emerson