A Literary Prescription for

Starting a New Career

For being the oldest beginner in the room.

Deciding to change is one thing. Actually starting is another, and this page is about the second one. It covers the first months and the first year: the pay cut, the retraining, the stupid questions you have to ask out loud, the twenty-six-year-old who is better at this than you and always will be, the friends who keep asking how it is going in a particular tone. Nobody warns you how much of a career change is simply tolerating incompetence in public after years of being the one who knew things. If you are still weighing up whether to jump, there is a fuller prescription here for career change. These books, poems and quotes are for after you have jumped, when it is too late to reconsider and far too early to be good.

Books Poetry Quotes & Prose
“The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried.”
Stephen McCranie

Books

Prescribed reading

Three of these are practical and one of them will make you feel considerably better about the first two years being thin. The stories are the useful counterweight: a novelist waiting tables at thirty-one, a philosopher fixing motorcycles, a widow of seventy cleaning an aquarium at night, and one woman whose venture does not go well at all, which is worth reading too.

01

So Good They Can’t Ignore You

Cal Newport · 2012

Newport’s argument is the useful one for anybody at the bottom of a new ladder: follow your passion is bad advice, because passion tends to be a result of competence rather than a precursor to it. People come to love work they are good at. Which means the first two years of anything new are supposed to feel unrewarding, and that feeling is not the signal to leave. It is simply what not being good yet feels like.

02

Writers & Lovers

Lily King · 2020

Casey is thirty-one, waiting tables in Boston, in serious debt, grieving her mother and six years into a novel nobody has asked for. King writes the humiliations exactly: the friends who have quietly given up and got proper jobs, the questions at parties, the landlord. It is here because it is the only novel I know that gets the specific combination of being too old for this and doing it anyway.

03

Shop Class as Soulcraft

Matthew Crawford · 2009

Crawford had a doctorate in political philosophy and a think-tank job he could not stand, so he opened a motorcycle repair shop. The book is his case for manual work as thinking rather than the absence of it, and it is very good on the satisfaction of a job where the thing either runs at the end or does not. Essential reading if the new career is a step down in status and you are braced for what people will say.

04

The Squiggly Career

Helen Tupper & Sarah Ellis · 2020

The practical British one. Tupper and Ellis start from the fact that the ladder is gone and careers now move sideways, backwards and diagonally, and then give you actual exercises: working out your transferable strengths, building a network from a standing start, describing a jump so it sounds deliberate rather than desperate. Full of worksheets, which is either the appeal or the drawback depending on your temperament.

05

The Bookshop

Penelope Fitzgerald · 1978

Florence Green, a widow of modest means, decides to open a bookshop in a small Suffolk town in 1959, and the town closes ranks against her with tremendous politeness. Fitzgerald is unsentimental to the point of bracing, and this is not a book where courage is rewarded. Read it as the honest counterweight to everything else here: sometimes the venture is right and the place is wrong, and that is worth knowing in advance.

06

Kitchen Confidential

Anthony Bourdain · 2000

Bourdain came up through New York kitchens the hard way and this is his account of what the bottom actually looks like: the hours, the burns, the hierarchy, the particular pleasure of being the newest and worst person in a room full of people who are extremely good. Profane and enormously entertaining, and underneath it a serious argument about earning a place rather than being given one.

07

Remarkably Bright Creatures

Shelby Van Pelt · 2022

Tova is seventy, widowed, and cleans an aquarium at night, which she took on largely to have somewhere to be. What she finds is a job she is good at, a giant Pacific octopus with opinions, and a reason to get up. Charming without being soft, and the best argument here that starting something new at an age when nobody expects it is neither ridiculous nor too late.

Poems about beginning again

For the year when nothing looks like progress

One poem sets out the price rather than promising the reward, one is a squirrel being patronised by a mountain, and one is about why the trees that had it easy are not the ones you can build with.

from “Success”

Berton Braley, 1917

If you want a thing bad enough
To go out and fight for it,
Work day and night for it,
Give up your time and your peace and your sleep for it…
If only desire of it
Makes you quite mad enough
Never to tire of it,
Makes you hold all other things tawdry and cheap for it…

Braley wrote verse for newspapers and was paid by the line, which shows, and the poem is nonetheless honest about something the career books tend to soften. It does not promise the thing will happen. It sets out the price and asks whether you want it at that price, which is the actual question in front of anyone considering a jump.

“Fable”

Ralph Waldo Emerson, 1846

The mountain and the squirrel
Had a quarrel,
And the former called the latter “Little Prig”;
Bun replied,
“You are doubtless very big;

Talents differ; all is well and wisely put;
If I cannot carry forests on my back,
Neither can you crack a nut.”

A squirrel being condescended to by a mountain, which is roughly the experience of the first six months in a new field. Emerson’s last two lines are the ones to keep in your pocket for the meeting where somebody with twenty years on you makes it clear how little you know. They are right about the twenty years. They still cannot crack the nut.

from “Good Timber”

Douglas Malloch, 1922

The tree that never had to fight
For sun and sky and air and light,
But stood out in the open plain
And always got its share of rain,
Never became a forest king
But lived and died a scrubby thing.

Good timber does not grow with ease,
The stronger wind, the stronger trees.

Malloch spent years writing for a lumber trade journal, so he had actually looked at a great many trees. The claim is a modest one and it holds up: the ones that had it easy are not the ones you can build with. It is a good poem for the year of the pay cut and the stupid questions, when nothing you are doing looks yet like progress to anybody watching.

Quotes & Prose

Quotes about starting a new career to keep

Short lines for the Sunday evening before the second week.

The expert in anything was once a beginner.

Helen Hayes

Amateurs sit and wait for inspiration, the rest of us just get up and go to work.

Stephen King

Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.

Attributed to Confucius

Every artist was first an amateur.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

H. Jackson Brown Jr.

From Georgia

For the first year

A few short practices for the stretch where everything is unfamiliar and none of it is yet yours.

Guided meditation

New Beginnings Visualisation Meditation

A guided practice for gently setting down what has finished and opening, with hope, to the new thing you are starting to build.

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A short talk by Georgia Clare

Fear or Intuition: Trusting Your Inner Yes

A short talk on telling fear from intuition, and learning to trust your own quiet yes, which is the whole difficulty of a jump like this.

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When You Can’t Find Hope, Look for a ‘What If’

On holding on through the long, uncertain middle of things, when nothing you are doing looks like progress yet.

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Questions people ask

Reading for Starting a New Career

Where should I start?

Start with So Good They Can’t Ignore You by Cal Newport, which explains why the first two years of anything new feel unrewarding and why that is not the signal to leave. If the new work is a step down in status and you are braced for what people will say, read Shop Class as Soulcraft instead. For something practical with actual exercises, The Squiggly Career is the British one.

Am I too old to start again?

The evidence is firmly against that worry, and the fuller case is on our page for feeling left behind. What is true is that starting late feels different: you have more to compare yourself against, less patience with being bad at things, and often a household depending on the outcome. That is a practical problem rather than a verdict, and it is worth separating the two.

Which quotes about starting a new career are worth keeping?

Lines worth keeping include “The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried” (Stephen McCranie), “The expert in anything was once a beginner” (Helen Hayes) and “Every artist was first an amateur” (Ralph Waldo Emerson). You will find these and others in the quotes section above.

How long before it stops feeling like a mistake?

Longer than anyone tells you, and the discomfort is not evidence. Newport’s point is worth repeating: satisfaction tends to arrive with competence rather than before it, so the first stretch is meant to feel thin. The useful questions in the meantime are whether you are getting better, whether you respect the people around you, and whether you would go back if somebody offered.

Curated by Georgia Clare, author of Quote Therapy — now in paperback & Kindle.
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