A Literary Prescription for

Yearning

For wanting something, or someone, with your whole chest.

Yearning is a more honest word than longing, blunter and a little embarrassing, which is probably why we don’t use it more. It is the ache of wanting something you don’t have, can’t quite reach, or have already lost — a person, a place, a version of your life that didn’t happen. The books, poems, and words gathered here take that ache seriously, rather than rushing to talk you out of it.

Books Poetry Quotes & Prose

Books

Prescribed reading

Books that take wanting seriously.

Wuthering Heights

Emily Brontë · 1847

Heathcliff and Catherine’s love is less a romance than a kind of weather system, destructive and inescapable, and the novel never pretends that wanting someone that much is good for either of them. It remains the gold standard for yearning written without a single ounce of restraint.

Call Me By Your Name

André Aciman · 2007

Aciman writes a single Italian summer of unspoken longing with such precision that the ache of wanting someone you haven’t yet had becomes almost unbearable to read. It is one of the more accurate accounts of desire as its own kind of suffering.

Norwegian Wood

Haruki Murakami · 1987

Murakami’s narrator spends much of the novel yearning for a woman who is only ever partly available to him, and the book’s quiet, melancholic tone never resolves that longing into anything tidier than it actually is. Some wanting, it suggests, just has to be carried.

The Time Traveler’s Wife

Audrey Niffenegger · 2003

A love story built almost entirely out of separation, in which the two leads spend more time apart, across different points in time, than they ever spend together. It turns yearning into the actual structure of the plot rather than just its emotional backdrop.

Poems about yearning

For when prose is not enough

Poems for wanting that has nowhere to land yet.

“Echo”

Christina Rossetti, 1854

Come to me in the silence of the night;
Come in the speaking silence of a dream;
Come with soft rounded cheeks and eyes as bright
As sunlight on a stream.

Rossetti calls out to someone she knows will not actually answer, asking only for a dream of them since the reality is unavailable. It is one of the most direct addresses to absence in English poetry, longing written with nowhere left for it to go but the page.

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“Bright Star”

John Keats, 1819

Pillow’d upon my fair love’s ripening breast,
To feel for ever its soft fall and swell,
Awake for ever in a sweet unrest,
Still, still to hear her tender-taken breath.

Keats wrote this knowing tuberculosis would soon separate him from Fanny Brawne forever, wishing only to prolong one ordinary intimate moment indefinitely. The yearning here is not for something unattained but for something he can already feel slipping away.

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“Ae Fond Kiss”

Robert Burns, 1791

Had we never lov’d sae kindly,
Had we never lov’d sae blindly,
Never met—or never parted—
We had ne’er been broken-hearted.

Burns wrote this as a farewell to a woman departing for Jamaica, certain he would never see her again, and his closing lines capture the particular cruelty of yearning: it only exists because you loved well enough for the parting to hurt this much.

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Quotes & Prose

Quotes about yearning to keep

For wanting, named plainly.

There is no remedy for love but to love more.

Henry David Thoreau

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Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.

Aristotle

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We loved with a love that was more than love.

Edgar Allan Poe, Annabel Lee

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Yearning is not a flaw in your character. It is proof of how much room your heart still has.

Georgia Clare

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From Georgia

Pause here, if you need to

A short practice for sitting with yearning, whenever you need somewhere to land.

Receiving Signs: Guidance, Synchronicity & Trust

Guided meditation by Georgia Clare

A reflective meditation for noticing the quiet signs and synchronicities around you, deepening trust in your own intuition.

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Questions people ask

Reading for Yearning

Where should I start?

If you only read one thing, begin with Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë. Heathcliff and Catherine’s love is less a romance than a kind of weather system, destructive and inescapable, and the novel never pretends that wanting someone that much is good for either of them. And if a whole book feels like too much today, scroll to the poems below — “Ae Fond Kiss” by Robert Burns can be read in a minute and asks nothing of you.

What’s the shortest thing to read here?

Start with the short forms on this page — the poems and the lines to keep — rather than a whole book. A poem or a single quote asks very little of you, and you don’t have to read in order, or finish anything.

What are the best quotes about yearning?

Quotes about yearning worth keeping include “There is no remedy for love but to love more.” (Henry David Thoreau), “Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” (Aristotle) and “We loved with a love that was more than love.” (Edgar Allan Poe). You’ll find these and more in the quotes section above.

Does reading actually help when you’re going through yearning?

Often, yes — not by fixing anything, but by keeping you company. There’s a particular comfort in reading someone who has been through yearning and come out the other side. It makes the feeling a little smaller, and you a little less alone with it.